Check to see if you are resisting doing what you know you need to do to make it work, and if you won't or can't do it, then you're wasting your time and energy, and it's time to change directions. If you gave it your best shot, and you know it's over, don't waste time in resentment and anger. It will hold you back.If you need to get some therapy to help The Devotion System you through this transition, do it, so you can grieve what's lost (even if you ended it, you've lost your hopes and dreams) and move your focus on to building a good life in your new circumstance. Make sure you take care of yourself emotionally, financially and physically. You'll feel a lot less resentment if you keep yourself together and in good health.
This is an important time to have your friends or family around you, you need support. Don't isolate, you don't have to go right out and start something new again (in fact, I suggest going slow with that) but you should have a social life with friends and family. Even if you don't think you feel ready to see people, see your closest friends and spend time with them. They'll help you heal, and remind you that you still have people who love you.Where we hold back upon the necessary work of release we hold only ourselves back. We allow fear more reign than it ought to ever have. We create the selfsame blockage that the devil has chosen for us; we do not cooperate with God.